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The dark side of love : the positive role of negative feelings

Author: Jane G Goldberg
Publisher: New Brunswick, N.J. : Transaction Publishers, ©1999.
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"We need to acknowledge the denied dark side of love because it is this awareness that can reveal to us love's true nature. By acknowledging our "negative" feelings, we can come into the full spectrum of emotion and hear the message of our darker feelings, without acting them out. Through this, we can increase our capacity for love."
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Document Type: Book
All Authors / Contributors: Jane G Goldberg
ISBN: 076580610X 9780765806109
OCLC Number: 40821110
Notes: Originally published 1993 by G.P. Putnam's Sons. With new introd.
Description: xxii, 306 pages ; 23 cm
Contents: 1. The Myths of Love --
2. Loving Love and Hating Hate --
3. The First Face of Narcissism: The Hate That Looks Like Love --
4. The Second Face of Narcissism: Destruction of the Self --
5. The Dark Side of Mother Love: Mother's Kisses and Dangerous Feelings --
6. The Dark Side of Family Love: Violent Separations and the Children's Revenge --
7. The Dark Side of Romantic Love: The Reemergence of Yearning --
8. The Dark Side of Marriage: The Death of Dreams --
9. The Hate That Heals --
10. Cooperative Love and the Birth of Consciousness --
11. The Reflective Light of Psychotherapy.
Responsibility: Jane G. Goldberg ; with a new introduction by the author.

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