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Separated by duty, united in love : a guide to long-distance relationships for military couples

Author: Shellie Vandevoorde
Publisher: New York : Citadel Press, ©2010.
Edition/Format:   Print book : English : New updated edView all editions and formats
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Addressing head-on the challenges of long-distance relationships with frank, practical advice and anecdotes, this work specifically targets military couples and includes the answers and resources they need to meet the greatest challenge any relationship can face.
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Document Type: Book
All Authors / Contributors: Shellie Vandevoorde
ISBN: 9780806531991 0806531991
OCLC Number: 677979607
Description: xv, 221 pages ; 21 cm
Contents: 1. Departure and the games we play --
Stage 1 : the mind games (prior to separation/ deployment) --
Stage 2 : depression (0-2 weeks) --
Stage 3 : the resentment --
Stage 4 : getting into the routine as well as taking care of yourself --
Stage 5 : living on love --
2. Communication --
Each knowledge where the other is coming from --
Phone tag --
E-mail/ webcam/ voice over internet protocol (VoIP)/ Skype --
Whose life is more miserable? --
Do not read between the lines --
Who hangs up first? --
Communication with your parents, friends, or in/ out-laws! --
Personal security to the public --
3. Financial hardship : a long-distance budget --
The urge to splurge --
The wicked phone bill --
Stealing from savings to pay checking --
Beware of unexpected expenses --
Why do you need a budget, and professional guidance? --
4. Infidelity --
The importance of positive influences --
Telltale signs --
A fling or an affair? --
Kiss and tell --
Chaplain S's analogy on preventing infidelity --
5. Children --
Handling adjustments --
Discipline --
Coping skills --
Schoolwork and behavior --
When the sadness will not go away --
When the service member returns --
6. Career --
Sick leave --
Day care dilemma --
Promotional opportunities for military spouses --
The guilt of leaving your children --
7. Home fries --
Favorite home fries/ resources --
Thank goodness for --
Vehicle maintenance --
Warranties --
Facebook/ MySpace --
Friends --
8. Homecoming --
First night --
Redadjustment --
Accounting for money spent --
The appreciation question --
9. Wounded warriors = wounded families --
Post-traumatic stress disorder --
Suicide --
10. Prayer --
11. Decisions we never want to make --
Decisions we are required to make --
Tips to remember for those who are providing comfort and support --
Personal account : the death of a service member --
Tips for those who are grieving --
12. Leadership --
Solutions --
Poems.
Responsibility: Shellie Vandevoorde.
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