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The way we never were : American families and the nostalgia trap

Author: Stephanie Coontz
Publisher: New York, NY : BasicBooks, ©1992.
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This myth-shattering examination of two centuries of American family life banishes the misconceptions about the past that cloud current debate about "family values." "Leave It to Beaver" was not a documentary, Stephanie Coontz points out; neither the 1950s nor any other moment from our past presents workable models of how to conduct our personal lives today. Without minimizing the serious new problems in American  Read more...
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Genre/Form: History
Additional Physical Format: Online version:
Coontz, Stephanie.
Way we never were.
New York, NY : BasicBooks, c1992
(OCoLC)654704886
Document Type: Book
All Authors / Contributors: Stephanie Coontz
ISBN: 0465001351 9780465001354 0465090974 9780465090976
OCLC Number: 25369921
Description: viii, 391 p. ; 24 cm.
Contents: The way we wish we were : defining the family crisis --
"Leave it to Beaver" and "Ozzie and Harriet" : American families in the 1950s --
"My mother was a saint" : individualism, gender myths, and the problem of love --
We always stood on our own two feet : self-reliance and the American family --
Strong families, the foundation of a virtuous society : the family and civic responsibility --
A man's home is his castle : the family and outside intervention --
Bra-burners and family bashers : feminism, working women, consumerism, and the family --
"First comes love, then comes marriage, then comes Mary with a baby carriage" : marriage, sex, and reproduction --
Toxic parents, supermoms, and absent fathers : putting parenting in perspective --
Pregnant girls, wilding boys, crack babies, and the underclass : the myth of black family collapse --
The crisis reconsidered.
Responsibility: Stephanie Coontz.
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The Way We Never Were examines two centuries of American family life and shatters a series of myths and half-truths that burden modern families. Placing current family dilemmas in the context of far-  Read more...

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