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|Material Type:||Internet resource|
|Document Type:||Book, Internet Resource|
|All Authors / Contributors:||
Leslie A Perlow
|Description:||ix, 254 pages ; 22 cm|
|Contents:||Suppressing, glossing, patching, and smoothing over : the many forms of the act of silence --
The way we do things around here : the rules of the game that silence conflict and difference --
Faking agreement : how the silent spiral begins --
Saying "yes" when you really mean "no" : why silence costs so much --
Starting up : what Clyde wouldn't say to Howie --
The pros come on board : how the founders and the new CEO do a magnificent job of hiding their feelings --
Two different universes : "we're creating order and structure" vs. "we're becoming fluffy with hierarchy" --
Bad endings : what happens without mutual misunderstanding --
Replacing the vicious spiral with the virtuous spiral : learning how to effectively express differences --
The positive power of conflict : how to gain support and create role models.
|Responsibility:||Leslie A. Perlow.|
"Worse yet, as Leslie Perlow documents, the act of silencing conflict may create the consequences we most dread. Tasks frequently take longer or never get done successfully, and silencing conflict over important issues with people for whom we care deeply can result in disrespect for, and devaluing of, those same people. Each time we silence conflict, we create an environment in which we're all the more likely to be silent next time. We get caught in a vicious "silent spiral," making the relationship progressively less safe, less satisfying, and less productive. Differences get glossed over, patched over, and suppressed ... until disaster happens. "Saying yes when you really mean no" is a problem that haunts organizations from start-ups to multinationals. It exists across industries, levels, and functions. And it's exacerbated by a down economy, when the fear of losing one's job is on everybody's mind and the idea of allowing conflict to surface or disagreeing with others seems particularly risky. All too often, the conversation at work bespeaks harmony and togetherness, even though passionate diagreements exist beneath the surface. Leslie A. Perlow is a corporate ethnographer, an anthropologist of corporate culture. Anthropologists like Margaret Mead spend years in the field studying exotic cultures. Perlow does the same, although the field for her is the office and the exotic people are us -- those who work in the world of organizations. But the end result is no less surprising or rich in insight. Whether it's a Fortune 500 firm, small business, or government bureaucracy, Perlow provides a keen understanding of the hidden issues behind what people say (and don't say). And more important, she shows how to create relationships where individuals feel empowered to express their genuine thoughts and feelings and to harness the power of positive conflict. Book jacket."--Jacket.