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Why love hurts : a sociological explanation

Author: Eva Illouz
Publisher: Cambridge, U.K. ; Malden, M.A. : Polity Press, 2012.
Edition/Format:   Print book : EnglishView all editions and formats
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Few of us have been spared the agonies of intimate relationships. They come in many shapes: loving a man or a woman who will not commit to us, being heartbroken when we're abandoned by a lover, engaging in internet searches, coming back lonely from bars, parties, or blind dates, feeling bored in a relationship that is so much less than we had envisaged - these are only some of the ways in which the search for love  Read more...
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Document Type: Book
All Authors / Contributors: Eva Illouz
ISBN: 9780745661520 0745661521 9780745671079 0745671071
OCLC Number: 760978465
Description: viii, 293 pages ; 24 cm
Contents: The misery of love --
The great transformation of love or the emergence of marriage markets --
Commitment phobia and the new architecture of romantic choice (with Mattan Shachak) --
The demand for recognition: love and the vulnerability of the self --
Love, reason, irony --
From romantic fantasy to disappointment.
Responsibility: Eva Illouz.

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* A new book by the award-winnning sociologist Eva Illouz on modern love. * Sets out to explain why love is such a painful experience for many people - why we invest so much in the search for love  Read more...

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Winner of the 2014 ASA 'Sociology of Emotions RecentContribution Award "A bold, thought-provoking book." TimesHigher Education "An important book full of arresting ideas about love inour time" Read more...

 
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