We over me : the counterintuitive approach to getting everything you want from your relationship
Khadeen Ellis (Author), Devale Ellis (Author), Leah Lakins (Author)
"After twelve years of marriage, twenty years together, and four kids, Devale and Khadeen Ellis have been through a lot. They’ve loved their way through a long-distance relationship, financial instability, parenthood, Khadeen’s near-death, and their near-divorce, chronicling their day-to-day life with their boys online. After much trial and error, they hit upon one surprising, essential truth: If you’re looking for a healthy relationship and a fulfilling life, focus on your partner’s needs instead of your wants. Choosing service over selfishness will not only make your relationship stronger, but it will help you achieve your own goals and build a legacy together. With their trademark transparency and humor, Khadeen and Devale share the messy, behind-the-scenes work of what it takes to succeed and support one another in their search for individual purpose while growing in their marriage." -- Amazon.com
Humor
271 pages ; 22 cm.
9780593577608, 0593577604
1365386962
Don't be afraid to make your own rules
Stuck between your love and a hard place
Creating a new kind of love story
Putting friendship at the core
Doing the work
Love each other into your dreams
There's a marriage after this wedding (or, when the real work begins)
Choosing service over selfishness
Doing it and doing it well
The kids ain't first
Conclusion: building legacy, loyalty, and peace